The Negotiation Guru

This can cost you a lot of money if you fail to understand all the terms and conditions. Always make sure that all the terms are properly negotiated before the end of a negotiation. Do not take things for granted.

I recently learned how important it is to negotiate all the terms and have the terms documented. Do not rely on mutual trust.

The setup

I had to buy a car to travel to work and decided to buy it from a friend. Let’s call him Jerry. The car was not in a good condition but Jerry had to sell it off. Deciding to do Jerry a favor, I agreed to buy the car from him.

There were 2 rounds of negotiation for the car.

During the 1^st round, Jerry offered a price of X amt and he will pay for the transferal fee of title deed. As X amt was not justifiable due to the condition of the car, I decided to negotiate with him two weeks later.

For the 2^nd round, Jerry decided to drop the price a little. I was still a little hesitant. Many friends discouraged me from buying the car. Since I gave him my word earlier, I decided not to negotiate further.

On the day of the sale, he said to me “Jens, you are paying for the transferal fee.”

That took me by surprise. I was living under the impression that he was paying for the transferal fee.

His defense line was, “since it was not mentioned during the 2^nd round of negotiation, whatever that was negotiated during the 1^st round would not be valid.”

He was right. I was the one who made the mistake of not making sure the condition would still be valid after the price reduction. My assumption was wrong.

The transferal fee was equivalent to the reduction in price he gave in the 2^nd round. At the end of the day, I was paying the same amount.

This entire transaction was based on relationship and trust. I did not feel the need to document everything. That was my fatal mistake.

Point to note: No matter who you are negotiating with, always make sure every term is made clear and documented. This can save you much trouble and even the relationship. The person you are negotiating with might not treasure the relationship as much as you do. Never take things for granted.

Remember: Always negotiate every term and condition. Document all commitments.

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Jens Thang
Negotiation Skills for Everyone

Email: jens@thenegotiationguru.com